Friday, October 21, 2016

Not what we wanted to see today...

 

USCIS (US Citizenship & Immigration Services) is requesting more evidence (paperwork) before they give us i800 approval. Our adoption agency is taking care of the evidence for us. This seems to be happening to more and more international adoptive parents. Please pray it is dealt with quickly and we can be approved for i800. This is the first of 3 approvals needed before we can be registered in court in India.
 
 
 
Our puzzle fundraiser is still going on...
Thank you so much to those who have given! We are so close to being fully funded for our adoption. I can't wait to show her all the names on the back of her puzzle! 
 
 
 
These quotes have really stuck with me this week...
 
 
 Please pray with us that we will be approved for our i800 next week! We really appreciate the prayers!
 
 



Saturday, October 15, 2016

Britt Meets our Girl in Person in 17 days!!

11:30 p.m. on November 1 in Alabama will be 10:00 a.m. on November 2 in India. So while we are sleeping (well not me!), Britt will be going to the orphanage to meet our daughter!!
 
 2 little gifts for our sweet girl that her daddy will take to her!
He is also taking bubbles, balls, and candy for the other children.
 
 
We have been anxiously waiting to hear back from our agency. They e-mailed the orphanage on October 7 to ask if Britt could stop by and meet our daughter while he is in India. I was SO excited to see this e-mail today...
 
 
 

Our puzzle fundraiser is underway...we are around $4,000 short of being fully funded for her adoption! 
You get a tax deductible letter for giving through Lifesong. You can donate online at https://mystory.lifesongfororphans.org/stories/adopting-daughter-india/ or mail a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Green 6422”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 40, Gridley, IL 61744.
 
Lifesong lets me know when checks have arrived so I can add names to our puzzle.
 
Her first monogram! :) 
You can read about her name here.
 
Thank you for all the prayer and support! Please pray specifically that we get the approvals we need quickly (i800, Article 5, No Objection Certificate). Once we have those approvals our case can move to court.
 
 
 
 
 

Thursday, October 13, 2016

2 1/2 Years Old

I tried to post this yesterday, but time got away...
 
October 12, 2016
 
Our sweet girl is 2 1/2 years old today.
 
6 months until her 3rd birthday.
 
Only God knows what the next 6 months hold, but I'm praying we will be with our girl on her 3rd birthday. I hate we have already missed 2 birthdays with her.
 
We are so in love with this little girl that is 8,234 miles, across the ocean, on the other side of the world away from us.
 

Every time Matthew sees her picture he says, "I'm gonna protect baby sister!" When we ask if he wants to pray before we eat, his prayer is always the same, "I want to ask God to bring baby sister home. Thank you God for my food. Amen!" 
 
Eli asks EVERY. DAY. when baby sister is coming home. He says she is so cute he can't stand it! Haha!
 
Caleb is excited and ready for her to be home, but he is also old enough to understand all the things we are having to wait for.
 
I am SO thankful that her birth mother chose life for her. Another India adoptive mom put it so beautifully..."She wasn't given a name, but she was so LOVED that she was taken to a safe place...because some precious babies aren't." 
 
If you missed my last blog about her new name you can read it here
 
Our puzzle fundraiser is going on through Lifesong for Orphans...$5 per puzzle piece and your name goes on the back. The puzzle will be hung in her room with all the names showing at first.
 
You get a tax deductible letter for giving through Lifesong. You can donate online at https://mystory.lifesongfororphans.org/stories/adopting-daughter-india/ or mail a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Green 6422”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 40, Gridley, IL 61744.
 
Lifesong lets me know when checks have arrived so I can add names to our puzzle.
 
We are so grateful and thankful for those of you who love our family by praying and giving!! Please pray along with us that God's hand of protection will be on our daughter and that He will move mountains and work miracles to get our baby girl home to us soon! Can't wait to see her in next year's pumpkin patch picture!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  

Sunday, October 9, 2016

Puzzle Fundraiser!


To begin, here are some things for our prayer warriors to pray specifically for...
 
1. Quick approval for our i800, Article 5, and No Objection Certificate (we need these approvals before our case can move to court)
 
2. Pray we get a compassionate judge when our case does go to court (The king's heart is like channels of water in the hand of the Lord; He turns it wherever He wishes. Proverbs 21:1)
 
3. Pray we get our baby girl home before her 3rd birthday in April
 
 
Now, to share with you where we got her new name...
All 3 of our boys have a Bible name and a family name, so we wanted our daughter to have the same. Her full name will be...
 
Mary-Lynn Sharles Green
 
Mary, of course, is from the Bible. Lynn is my momma's middle name and my middle name.
My momma and me
 
 
My Nanny's mother wanted her middle name to be Sharles, but the nurses misunderstood her and put Charles on her birth certificate. We wanted to use the middle name her mother intended her to have for our daughter.
Nanny's mother on the left
Nanny, my daddy's momma, in the middle and on the right
 
 
 
 
And just for fun, here is where we got our 3 boys' family names from...
 
Caleb Wayne
Caleb's middle name came from his daddy and Papa (Britt's daddy), my granddaddy also shared the same middle name 
 
Elijah Thompson
Eli's middle name came from Britt's grandparents' last name and his momma's maiden name
 
Matthew Charles
Matthew's middle name is the same as his PawPaw's (my daddy). My daddy got his middle name from his momma, Miriam Charles, but hers was suppose to be Sharles...where Mary-Lynn is getting her middle name from!! :)
And one more story because I just love this!...Obie Thomas Head Sr. (on the left) was born August 28, 1906. My daddy, Thomas Charles Head (as a child on the left, and as a PawPaw on the right), was named after him. My daddy wanted to be PawPaw Head to his grandchildren just like Obie Thomas was PawPaw Head to him. On August 28, 2013 Matthew Charles was born. So Matthew was born on his Great-Great PawPaw's birthday and Matthew Charles was named after Thomas Charles, his PawPaw. I just think that is so neat, and SO God!!
 
 
And now for the puzzle fundraiser...
 
Thank you SO much to Halie Studdard who worked with us to design our picture that we had printed onto a puzzle!
 
And thank you to my awesome husband who worked very hard to put this difficult puzzle together!!


 
 
I modge podged it all together so those tiny pieces can not get lost...
 
So now we are ready to begin...here is how it works...
 
We will hang it up in her room with the back of the puzzle showing at first! It will be a wonderful visual of all the people who have given and, more importantly, prayed to get her home!  
 
Go to...
 to donate $5 for a puzzle piece.
 
 
Lifesong has been blessed with partners who underwrite all U.S. administrative and fundraising costs (TMG Foundation and other partners). That means 100% of your donation will go directly to the adoption.
  • In following IRS guidelines, your donation is to Lifesong for Orphans. This organization retains full discretion over its use, but intends to honor the donor’s suggested use.
  • Lifesong is a 501(c)3 tax exempt organization. Individual donations of $50 or more and yearly donations totaling $250 or more will receive a tax-deductible receipt. Receipts for donations under $50 will gladly be sent upon request.

STRIPE charges an online processing fee (2.2% +.30 USD per transaction). Your donations will be decreased by this amount. You may also send a check payable to “Lifesong for Orphans”. In the memo line please write “Green 6422”, to ensure it is credited to our account. Please mail to Lifesong for Orphans, PO Box 40, Gridley, IL 61744.
 
Thank you!!


Monday, October 3, 2016

A New Name


Lots of pictures and updates since my last post a month ago!
 
My sister and I went to a consignment sale. I just had to buy something for our sweet girl!
 
 
Our agency, Children of the World, had a India Travel Class in Fairhope. It was very informative! I loved getting to meet the wonderful women from COTW and other adoptive families face-to-face!!

Britt with Ms. Pat, Terri, and Mary Beth...such an amazing, Godly family!


On September 16, Ms. Pat called to tell me our daughter's original documents from the orphanage had finally made it to COTW!! We had been waiting 5 weeks and 2 days (yes, I was counting!)
I was SO excited to see this FedEx package sitting at my door 3 days later! There was no new medical information, but we were able to read more on her Child Study Report than the scanned in one we had before. This made me laugh...
Although, I may not be laughing when she and Matthew gang up on me with all their boldness!!


We had an authentic Indian meal made by a sweet lady who grew up in India. Thank you again Sabrina and Roy!


Matthew wanted to stay with Mrs. Sabrina!


Once we had the original documents signed and shipped back to COTW, they started on our i800 paperwork. The i800 is a companion document to the i800a (which we were approved for on 8-11-16). The i800 looks at our child specifically. Terri e-mailed the information for us to proof-read on September 28. Two days later this was at my door...
Praying for a quick i800 approval!! The paperwork made it to USCIS (US Citizenship & Immigration Services) this morning.


Our church, First Baptist Eclectic, had an Adoption Yard Sale for us. We were BLOWN AWAY with how much was raised...$1,138.36!!
Britt found lots of chairs to rest on during the sale. As soon as one sold he would find another one. Hahaha!
 
 
The next day we had Sunitha Joe from Christ Faith Home for Children in Chennai, India with us at church!
She honored Britt as pastor by putting a scarf around him! :)
Sunitha spoke about Christ Faith Home. You can learn more about it at www.christfaithhome.in
 
 
Sunitha brought beautiful items made by the women at Christ Faith Home. I had fun shopping, especially knowing it all goes to support their orphanage.
 
 
My sweet friend, Christie, bought me this Ozark Trail cup. I love it (it's made me drink way more water) and I love it even more with my India vinyl on it...
 
 
Now for the title of this blog...A New Name...
 
In my next blog (which will hopefully be this week!), I will tell you where we got her new name and all about our puzzle fundraiser that we will be starting. So stay tuned...
 
 
This is so, so good! Please take time to read it. I know I needed it...
From Journey (Lifeway) Waiting on God
"But God often forces us to wait on Him to teach us, first, that He doesn't need human means to accomplish His plans for our lives; and second, that we can trust His ways even when they seem strange, risky, and even impossible...(1 Chron. 14) Essentially, God told David not to attack the enemy head-on. Instead, David and his army were to go to the outside of the Philistine camp and wait for the enemy to retreat. The signal that David and his army could march out to battle was the sound of God's angel army marching on the tops of the balsam trees (v. 15). Can you imagine the sound of God's invisible army marching on the treetops, waging war on behalf of David? Friend, this is the same angel army that God commands to go before you, to wage war on the impossible in order to bring about His plans for your life. Will you trust Him? Will you wait for Him instead of taking matters into your own hands? Will you stop assessing your circumstances by what you can see with your natural eyes and instead keep your focus on the One who created the world out of nothing? In 2 Kings 6...When Elisha's servant woke up the next morning and saw Aram's army surronding them, he was terrified. But Elisha prayed that God would open his servant's eyes to see reality. God answered that prayer, and the servant "saw that the mountain was covered with horses and chariots of fire" (v. 17). God's angel army. I think we get restless in the waiting because we can't see God working, so we assume He's completely forgotten about us. But just because we can't see God working doesn't mean He's not. In all things, at all times, God is working for our good."